The first 2 are always the hardest, and 5-6 is a good top limit.
You have to learn to get them pairing off if you dont want drama.
I know what your talking about with forum addiction, I started this forum so I could sate my forum addiction, build a better forum than most of the ones I was posting in. Plus have a resource for all handy tips and tricks I came across, share my knowledge, and rekindle the Darksat name.
This forum got me weaned off DP,web mastery and all the others I used to hang out in.
And I do think its much better.
Quality over quantity as they say.